10 October, 2007

Joyce Meyer's 5 teaching

1. GO DEEPER - Take a step of faith
Spiritual babies are those who follow what they feel or think. But we have to leave the shallow of the flesh and go deeper with the Spirit. Luke 5, Jesus told Simon to " Go out where it is DEEPER and let down your nets, and you will catch many fish." Which also a symbol that we have to go deeper in faith to be able to get something in our life. When God is calling us to go deeper, we will start feeling unsatisfied with our life or where we are now. We want more. Many feels that, but only a few are willing to pay the price. Because in order to go somewhere with God, we have to LEAVE something behind. Personal obedience is the MOST important thing in our walk with God. BE GOD'S PLEASER AND NOT MEN'S!! Because by the end of ourlives, we'll be answering to God and not men. When we're ready to move , those who don't want to move will be angry and get jealous with us.But we need to obey God for ourselves!!

2. SELF ACCEPTANCE - Have peace with ourselves
God wants us to be bold enough to be OURSELVES!! Sometimes we focus too much with what's wrong with us rather than what God wants us to do. Which is exactly what the devil wants. Nobody have any autorithy over us like we have to ourselves. And the way we see ourselves is how it will cross to others. Matthew 22:37-39, " Love God with all your heart, soul and mind.....Love your neighbor as yourself." Is talking 3 relationships here. With God, others and ourself. And not untill we start loving ourself, accept who we are in Christ, can we ever start loving others. When we like ourselves and see it as God see it, we won't even bother what others will say or think about us. The devil will do everything he could to stop you from accepting just the way you are and have peace with yourself!


3. LIVE BOLDLY!! BE COURAGEOUS AND BRAVE.
People are challenged and motivated by bravery. We can be powerful or pitiful but we can't be both. We can be sad, low, down on the outside but still "standing" on the inside. PRESS ON! Are we gonna be the person who give up or be stronger in our difficulties? There's nothing He can do for us if we decide to give up. God works thru faith and part of faith is being bold-confident. Not on ourself but God. Galatians 6:8-9, We will harvest as long as we're not giving up. And stop waiting for someone to help us to bring miracles or bring us out from misery and self pity, but be brave and do it ourself. John 5:1-9, Jesus asked the lame man despite knowing how long he's been there for " Do you want to get well?" He answered " I can't sir, for I have no one to put me into the pool when the water stirred up." (He was waiting for someone to help him and being there for 38 years should make him more determined and find a way rather than just waited). And He added, "While I'm trying to get there, someone else always gets in ahead of me." (He was falling into self pity.Feeling sorry for himself). Jesus told him, " Stand up, pick up your sleeping mat ,and walk!" (Jesus didn't feel pity on him or doing something for him but ordered him TO DO something instead). Get up and get a life!! Live with the fiery spirit in us for God's spirit is not a spirit of giving up!! Luke 19:1-9, Zacheus was short but he was determined that he won't be left out and he did > something radical. He climbed the sycamore tree to see Jesus and the spirit of the Lord told Jesus to looked up and give attention to him. (Jesus didn't walk looking up all the time). Jesus was very proud with what Zacheus did. And he was the only one Jesus went and have dinner with.


4. LOVE - Is an action on purpose

Colossians 3:12-14, We must clothe ourselves with tenderhearted, mercy,kindness, humility, gentleness and patience........and the MOST important piece of clothing you must wear is Love. Love is what binds us together in perfect harmony. Which means, love is like a clothing that you CAN choose to wear or not to wear. It is an action on purpose and Jesus CHOOSE to wear IN love always. Revelations 16:15, I will come unexpectedly like a thief! Blessed are those who are watching for me, who keep their CLOTHES ready so they will not be seen naked and ashamed. The clothes mentioned here is not our earthly clothes but were actually talking about this "clothes" that was mentioned in Colossians. Without all of that Spiritual clothes, we're actually looked naked to God and the devil as well. And that's an easy target for Satan. ONLY love can defeats the enemy because the devil IS scared of love. So listen to others, have mercy, encourage, forgive, make someone smile or laugh, meet their needs, as an act of love. Showing what God has done to us. What He's doing in our lives. BE a vessel which God can flow and fill in so that we'll be fruitful.


God was actually asking Joyce to love her father, who was harassing her sexually for 15 years in her teenage years, by buying them a house in neighbourhood area, a car and taking care of her very old parents. Joyce already forgive him but she finds it difficult to love him or having him anywhere in her life. Specially that he pretended like nothing ever happen. Never sorry for what he did. But she obeyed God, did exactly what God told her to do and 3 years later, her father cried for a week and finally apologised for what he did to her, how sorry he was, and asked her to baptise him that Sunday. He was 80 years old, need a stick to help him walk and when he was coming out from the water, he started running around the church, shouting " God is good!!! God is good!!! Praise God!!" Bottom line is, everything that God asked us to do, will be for OUR benefit in the end. Take care of God's business and God will take care of our business!!

5. FEAR - Live a larger life!! Not a small life with fear

Fear is the the one thing the devil use to keep us from progressing.The minute we take a step of faith, the devil will also take a step to make us afraid, lying and bringing bad negative thinking to us. As long as we're not giving up, God will do EVERYTHING He promised.But there's nothing God can do if we choose to give up. It's one thing to fear fear, but it's another thing to let fear CONTROL us. We can't wish for fear to get away but we have to CONQUER it!! We may feel fear but we DON'T bow down to it. WeCONFRONT it!! Don't put too much attention to how we feel. As long as we know that God send us, tell us to do it and God IS beside us. It didn't matter what we feel but what we WILL do matter most. Just because we feel fear doesn't mean we can't KEEP going forward. Lot of people got afraid to not getting what they want in their life. Fear of failure. But sometimes we learn more in our failure than our sucsess. Besides, God's will be done in our life for He ALWAYS do and give the BEST for us. Mattew 14:28, Out of the 12 diciples, only Peter was brave enough to asked Jesus that he too want to walk on water. But he started to switch his attentionto the storm, FEEL fear and forgetting that Jesus IS there WITH him. Same as us. Once we start being afraid of "storms" in our lives, we start forgetting what God says, promised and that He IS with us. Verse 34, They CROSSED the lake.......So they finally ARRIVED on the other side of where they were before despite having a storm and heavy waves. Which also means, as long as we STAY on the boat, God will deliver us anyway. Just HANG ON!! Josua 1:6-9, BE STRONG and COURAGEOUS!! For the Lord your God is WITH you wherever you go. BE bold, BE strong, BE confident and BE courageous as God commanded us to. BE!! Is a choice. How we're gonna act. Peter might fall, but Jesus were probably proud, at least Peter's bold enough to asked and tried talkingon water. Brave person is someone who feel fear but KEEP ON doing what God says anyway. And people are challenge by bravery.God dare us to do bigger thing, to do something new, to get out from the boat and walk on water. God wants us to live with PASSION and PURPOSE! DON'T GIVE UP YOUR DREAMS!!! God LIKES bold people. Don't look at who dislikes us but those who DO. Be God's pleaser! Don't let the enemy steal our destiny. Believes in GOD rather than our feeling. God makes everything beautiful on its time. Believe and it will come true to you.

25 September, 2007

無言感激








不經不覺,明日27號就會上機去峇里,我地部份家人、親戚、朋友、同事們會一齊見證我地既婚禮;而有好多因事唔能夠去既朋友就好有心,送左好多結婚同埋入伙禮物入俾我地 (見相),真係太客氣喇,上黎加雙筷或者飲下紅酒咪得囉。
在此再三謝過各位兄台既厚愛,無言感激,等我地返香港之後再約出黎睇片食飯喇~~~ciao

德國旅行車




服役左四年幾五年既法國靈獅彎路皇最近退役喇。當初為左一嘗揸棍波車既感覺,買左佢,點知一揸揸左五年,真係堅! 雖然佢係一部好車,但係為左令煎魚有得領略下駕駛既快感(辛苦),都係時間換下車喇~~~

16 September, 2007

Home Sweet Home





經過兩個月既裝修工程,我地已經係9月正式入住我地既家喇! 翻新左間屋真係唔同晒,一切都好企理,月尾送埋張電腦枱同埋速電腦就大功告成,朋友們可以黎House Warming喇~~~

02 September, 2007

讚賞和感謝

在此真的要讚一下我老公, 在最近的一連串的繁事, 包括裝修, 搬家, 巴里結婚, 北京擺酒等等, 可以說他一手包辦, 搞得頭頭是道, 我也順勢做個小婦人, 只專注公司的事.

有時人真要經過事情的考驗, 才現出真本事, 真性情, 我感謝主給了我一個有擔當, 有責任感, 有愛心, 有胸襟, 有熱誠, 有毅力, 越發成熟的好男人.

01 September, 2007

交屋一肚氣 之 貪得無厭

香港地點解貧者越貧,富者越富,完全可以係我交樓既事件中深深體會。

話說我地係西環租既屋要係31號交樓,跟住攞番兩個月Pre-paid。

之前都預左個老女業主麻煩,早前已經裝番d燈,又掃左地,執過d地方咁,免得佢有借口扣起d Pre-paid。

到左個曰,業主先係遲左半粒鐘,都算喇。黎到又話呢度話清潔,個度唔乾淨,亦都係預左,心諗住左年幾,間屋有人同冇人住都一定好大塵架喇,唔好玩喇,所以我都控制住我既EQ,佢有佢講,我就左耳入右耳出,唔通我搵清潔公司同你執一次咩。

跟住試電器就最順利;到左試房鎖匙,我企左入房鎖左度門,佢左擰右擰都開唔到,連開門都唔識,重要話條鎖匙唔啱,原來佢除左EQ有問題,IQ都有d問題。

最後高潮來臨,業主話點解d燈得個燈胆,唔算係“燈飾”,就開始左呢場正常人同癲婆既理論。
佢就攞住份合約係手話開始個時HK$1500包全屋窗簾同埋“燈飾”,依架d窗簾ok,但係就話d要“燈飾”唔係要燈胆,係要話佢要裝佢裝開個款。我就話[ 阿T太,個陣時講好話我地會用HK1500裝窗簾,跟住自己出錢裝d好d既燈,走個陣時攞番,我都好有手尾咁裝番d燈胆俾佢架喇 ];跟住佢就好似師傅到咁,燥狂抑鬱乜都黎晒,又話我唔理之前裝d乜野燈,依架呢d唔係“燈飾”,係“燈胆”,我就即時同佢講,[ 得,你要“燈飾”,我即係落去買幾個燈罩,咁咪叫“燈飾”囉 ],佢又唔肯,話要佢之前裝開個隻;如此這般爭論左半粒鐘,跟住就落左去佢能夠用HK$1500做晒全屋窗簾同埋“燈飾”個間舖打下價,我打死都唔信HK$1500可以做晒全屋窗簾同埋燈飾。

落到去,原來都係我地搵開個間,業主同老闆娘W小姐講,[ 你個時幫我攪間屋d窗簾同埋燈飾,1500蚊攪掂,你記唔記得呀? ]。老闆娘W小姐話唔係好記得播,係都好多年前喇。完全唔知米貴既業主就死都要話做到,跟住打完價,全屋用佢裝開個隻燈飾,連工包料要HK$1170,我望住老闆娘W小姐笑左一笑,跟住即刻話,[ 即係剩番HK$330裝晒全屋窗簾 ? 好,不如咁,你係度搵隻布,可以用HK$1500做晒全屋窗簾同埋燈飾,我即刻上樓拆晒d窗簾,再俾返HK1500你,堅既!!! ]業主就梗係答唔到我喇,我算你d布唔駛錢,人工$330點都做唔到喇。

作為中間人既經紀P就同我出舖頭傾,由最初要我出晒HK$600,到最後我同經紀P一人HK$200了事。因為已經傾左成個幾兩個鐘,我又要返新居執屋,加上同業主傾等如係街邊同個智瘴或者痴綫既人傾計,傾到一肚氣,重要俾佢扣住d Pre-paid,個兩百蚊衰d講句俾多一蚊佢當帛金又好,當買番d燈罩又好,費事同d人一般見識,件事就係咁完結。

有d前輩話發財會立品,好明顯都有例外既;呢個業主手上都肯定有幾個四球野既樓盤放租,屋企唔係住山頂,就係住南區,但係呢d都唔係個人身家既問題,佢睇錢睇到咁大,重要貪得無厭,係其他方面一定會地方佢會控制唔到,亦可以無得佢控制。

係香港地,做我地呢d‘夾心人’有時都真係幾苦,對自己,對人地有要求,但係又唔學得d有錢人咁惟我獨尊;又唔學得d呃綜緩人咁耍無賴。不過諗深一層今生好快過姐,將來永生受苦就大件事喇!!!

好消息一籮籮

好朋友W正值轉工之際,突然收到我公司人事部電話話有offer。最特別就係我地係好友,亦做過同學,做過鄰居,就快重做埋同事,我諗唔會有咁多人有咁既緣份掛……

好友J最近換左隻好似變形金鋼既大玩具,攪到我都心郁郁……

自己份工一眨眼就做左五年,收左封信,有d Advancement,責任大左,努力努力……

煎魚出年年頭都開始Acting,要handle既case會難左,但係要進步一定要踏出自己既comfort zone,慢慢就處理到……

裝修工程都好準時,無出亂子,跟住順利裝埋電器,攪完衛生,Pack箱搬野,執野,攪掂晒,好友們可以黎House warming。