健康比掌聲重要

朋友住院了，看他插著鼻胃管，吊著「點滴」，病奄奄的躺在床上，想他平日生龍活虎的樣子，前後判若兩人，所謂「好漢就怕病來磨」，這回他得療養好一陣子了。

其實我擔心的不只是他的健康，我更擔心的是他的未來。

朋友是位認真盡職的高階主管，很得老闆的信任與器重。同事們倒有正反兩面的評價。持正面看法的以為：凡事有他在，一切搞定不必操心。他是資深主管，熟悉公司運作的原則，做事小心謹慎，作部屬的只要聽命行事就行了。 持反面看法的以為：他事必躬親，沒有給適度的空間讓下面的人得以發揮。而且對老闆唯命是從，從不反應實際的困難情況，不擇任何手段以達到老闆的目標為原則，加班到深夜，視休假為無物。弄得其他的人也不好意思遞假單。

這種以公司為家，夜以繼日的付出心力，任鐵打的也撐不住了。有一天在辦公室跟同事開會，事前沒有任何不適，突然覺得一陣暈眩，眼前一片漆黑，醒來發現自己在急診室裡。 剛開始住院的時候，老闆和同事還來探望，一個週末過後，探望的人逐漸變少，甚至交情深的同事，有意無意的暗示；公司的人事可能會有所調整。朋友聽了不以為意，認為自己夙夜匪懈的為公司打拼了一、二十年，沒有功勞也有苦勞，何況平日很得老闆的肯定，多少次在公開場合誇讚自己的業績，並且表示總經理出缺，他是被考慮的人選之一。而這次是因公而積勞成疾，上層主管應當表揚和獎勵都來不及，哪會有什麼忘恩負義的決定？即使有什麼風吹草動，也應該是更上層樓才對，所以朋友放心的繼續在醫院養病。 又過了一個週末，老闆的特助帶了一大籃水果，和人事經理笑容可掬的一同來到病房。噓寒問暖之後，特助清了清嗓門兒，誠懇的說：「郭董很關心副總的身體，交代您不必急著出院，一切費用由公司負責……」人事經理接著說：「副總的職務非常重要，董事長囑咐要王特助接手。您調到資管部當顧問，至於薪資…」朋友識趣的說：「請回去代我謝謝董事長的好意，我的病牽累大家了，出院以後我會回去辦辭職手續。」人事經理乾笑了一下：「董事長說，如果這樣的話，退休金會從優處理。」「喔！他真是周到。」朋友回答。

朋友告訴我他經過這事以後，很有所感。也將感想寫在一張張的便簽上，分送前來探望的朋友。我也不例外。他的字不像以前那麼有力，卻仍然好看。便簽上寫著：掌聲是別人給自己的一種肯定，健康是自己給自己的一種肯定，當掌聲與健康不可兼得的時候，寧可選健康而捨掌聲， 因為掌聲會消失，而擁有了健康也同時擁有了獲得其他掌聲的機會，如果一旦失去了健康，其實也就失去了一切。

北京之旅

番左香港兩個禮拜到，我地又去北京喇。除左要去長城做好漢之外，更重要既係探一探我既外父外母，而我爹我媽同外父外母更加係歷史性第一次見面，哈哈，一見如故。

一家人

親戚們在南來順食回族午宴

東來順涮羊肉

帥透的同志在湖邊吹Saxophone,酷!!!

外母大人煮既餃子餐

故宮午門前

明十三陵 - 定陵

經典的八餸一湯

在長城做好漢

峇里回憶

短短六日既峇里結婚之行相距今日已經差唔多三個月，但諗番起又記憶猶新。開心既係整個結婚過程一切順利，一家人難得相聚享受假期，朋友親戚撥冗出席；但遺憾既係外父外母因身體抱恙未能親臨見證，唯有睇番錄影補數。

以下係六日既簡短行程:

第一日: 我地一家人先入住Villa De Daun – 有三個獨立套房，一個私人泳池，加多一張BB床。周圍逛逛食晚飯，我同煎魚再去做了一個免費Spa.

第二日: 食過lunch後，去Uluwatu既Blue Point Chapel進行婚禮，詳見，晚上親友賓客到我地住既Villa食自助餐。

第三日: 食過早餐，先在泳池暢泳，再到Kuta市內走走。

第四日: 轉酒店，離開Kuta，前往Ubud，感受峇里既民族文化氣息。

第五日: 先在酒店泳池晒太陽hea下，下晝再到Ayung River 玩Rafting。

第六日: 坐下晝機返香港。

做人 VS 做事

從來都是會做人重要過會做事, 當然如果閣下兩樣皆行, 當然天下無敵, 但如果只會做事卻不會做人, 就不會有甚作為, 但如果會做人而做事卻不外如是, 閣下依然可以所向無敵

如果現在才開始學作人, 會不會太遲....

We are now Mr. and Mrs. Fok

With God's blessing, our Bali wedding went very well. Good weather, good food, good people, good atmosphere. It was certainly a very relaxing and memorable time:

Our 3 bedroom villa. We have our own swimming pool, open kitchen, dinning and living area...













Enjoying welcoming afternoon tea












Our Blue Point Chapel












Marching in....












The Kiss....
















The unforgottable Indian Ocean

A good story about marriage

When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand andsaid, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes. Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raisedthe topic calmly. She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why? I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the dinner and shouted at me, you are not a man!

That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardlygive her a satisfactory answer : I had lost my heart to a lovely girl calledDew. I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her!
With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which statedthat she could own our house, 30% shares of my company and the car. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent tenyears of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wastedtime, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Dew so dearly.

Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce whichhad obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now. The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep veryfast because I was tired after an eventful day with Dew. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.
In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't wantanything from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a months timeand she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. Sherequested that everyday for the month's duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going craz y. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.I told Dew about my wife s divorce conditions. She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully. My wife and I hadn't had any body contactsince my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. When I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mummy in his arms. His words brought a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don't tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset.

I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office. On the second day, both of us acted much moreeasily. She leaned on my chest.. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse.I realized that I hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute Iwondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing.I didn't tell Dew about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger. She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses butcould not find a suita ble one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily. Suddenly it hit me; she had buried somuch pain and bitterness in her heart.Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head. Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mum out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wifegestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, tothe hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.

But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I heldher tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind... I walked upstairs. Dewopened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Dew, I do not want the divorce anymore.She looked at me, astonished. Then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Dew, I said, I won'tdivorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each other any more. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I amsupposed to hold her until death does us apart.

Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. Thesales girl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote: 'I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart'

The small details of our lives are what really matters in a relationship.It is not the mansion, the car, the property, the bank balance that matters. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse's friend and dothose little things for each other that build intimacy.

4 types of people in an office

There are commonly these 4 types of people in an office:

1) Capable and willing to do the work. They end up being dumped with most of the hard work but not necessarily have proportionate realistic recognition and be rewarded.

2) The lucky one. They are not necessarily the smartest but somehow they win the heart of the boss and go all the way up.

3) Capable but unwilling to do the work. They couldn't care less and no one can dispose of them.

4) Uncapable. Oh...well....

Do you have all of them in your office? Remember that most of the time you do not have a choice as to what type of people you want to be. You can just take it and live with it.

Joyce Meyer's 5 teaching

1. GO DEEPER - Take a step of faith
Spiritual babies are those who follow what they feel or think. But we have to leave the shallow of the flesh and go deeper with the Spirit. Luke 5, Jesus told Simon to " Go out where it is DEEPER and let down your nets, and you will catch many fish." Which also a symbol that we have to go deeper in faith to be able to get something in our life. When God is calling us to go deeper, we will start feeling unsatisfied with our life or where we are now. We want more. Many feels that, but only a few are willing to pay the price. Because in order to go somewhere with God, we have to LEAVE something behind. Personal obedience is the MOST important thing in our walk with God. BE GOD'S PLEASER AND NOT MEN'S!! Because by the end of ourlives, we'll be answering to God and not men. When we're ready to move , those who don't want to move will be angry and get jealous with us.But we need to obey God for ourselves!!

2. SELF ACCEPTANCE - Have peace with ourselves
God wants us to be bold enough to be OURSELVES!! Sometimes we focus too much with what's wrong with us rather than what God wants us to do. Which is exactly what the devil wants. Nobody have any autorithy over us like we have to ourselves. And the way we see ourselves is how it will cross to others. Matthew 22:37-39, " Love God with all your heart, soul and mind.....Love your neighbor as yourself." Is talking 3 relationships here. With God, others and ourself. And not untill we start loving ourself, accept who we are in Christ, can we ever start loving others. When we like ourselves and see it as God see it, we won't even bother what others will say or think about us. The devil will do everything he could to stop you from accepting just the way you are and have peace with yourself!

3. LIVE BOLDLY!! BE COURAGEOUS AND BRAVE.
People are challenged and motivated by bravery. We can be powerful or pitiful but we can't be both. We can be sad, low, down on the outside but still "standing" on the inside. PRESS ON! Are we gonna be the person who give up or be stronger in our difficulties? There's nothing He can do for us if we decide to give up. God works thru faith and part of faith is being bold-confident. Not on ourself but God. Galatians 6:8-9, We will harvest as long as we're not giving up. And stop waiting for someone to help us to bring miracles or bring us out from misery and self pity, but be brave and do it ourself. John 5:1-9, Jesus asked the lame man despite knowing how long he's been there for " Do you want to get well?" He answered " I can't sir, for I have no one to put me into the pool when the water stirred up." (He was waiting for someone to help him and being there for 38 years should make him more determined and find a way rather than just waited). And He added, "While I'm trying to get there, someone else always gets in ahead of me." (He was falling into self pity.Feeling sorry for himself). Jesus told him, " Stand up, pick up your sleeping mat ,and walk!" (Jesus didn't feel pity on him or doing something for him but ordered him TO DO something instead). Get up and get a life!! Live with the fiery spirit in us for God's spirit is not a spirit of giving up!! Luke 19:1-9, Zacheus was short but he was determined that he won't be left out and he did > something radical. He climbed the sycamore tree to see Jesus and the spirit of the Lord told Jesus to looked up and give attention to him. (Jesus didn't walk looking up all the time). Jesus was very proud with what Zacheus did. And he was the only one Jesus went and have dinner with.

4. LOVE - Is an action on purpose

Colossians 3:12-14, We must clothe ourselves with tenderhearted, mercy,kindness, humility, gentleness and patience........and the MOST important piece of clothing you must wear is Love. Love is what binds us together in perfect harmony. Which means, love is like a clothing that you CAN choose to wear or not to wear. It is an action on purpose and Jesus CHOOSE to wear IN love always. Revelations 16:15, I will come unexpectedly like a thief! Blessed are those who are watching for me, who keep their CLOTHES ready so they will not be seen naked and ashamed. The clothes mentioned here is not our earthly clothes but were actually talking about this "clothes" that was mentioned in Colossians. Without all of that Spiritual clothes, we're actually looked naked to God and the devil as well. And that's an easy target for Satan. ONLY love can defeats the enemy because the devil IS scared of love. So listen to others, have mercy, encourage, forgive, make someone smile or laugh, meet their needs, as an act of love. Showing what God has done to us. What He's doing in our lives. BE a vessel which God can flow and fill in so that we'll be fruitful.

God was actually asking Joyce to love her father, who was harassing her sexually for 15 years in her teenage years, by buying them a house in neighbourhood area, a car and taking care of her very old parents. Joyce already forgive him but she finds it difficult to love him or having him anywhere in her life. Specially that he pretended like nothing ever happen. Never sorry for what he did. But she obeyed God, did exactly what God told her to do and 3 years later, her father cried for a week and finally apologised for what he did to her, how sorry he was, and asked her to baptise him that Sunday. He was 80 years old, need a stick to help him walk and when he was coming out from the water, he started running around the church, shouting " God is good!!! God is good!!! Praise God!!" Bottom line is, everything that God asked us to do, will be for OUR benefit in the end. Take care of God's business and God will take care of our business!!

5. FEAR - Live a larger life!! Not a small life with fear

Fear is the the one thing the devil use to keep us from progressing.The minute we take a step of faith, the devil will also take a step to make us afraid, lying and bringing bad negative thinking to us. As long as we're not giving up, God will do EVERYTHING He promised.But there's nothing God can do if we choose to give up. It's one thing to fear fear, but it's another thing to let fear CONTROL us. We can't wish for fear to get away but we have to CONQUER it!! We may feel fear but we DON'T bow down to it. WeCONFRONT it!! Don't put too much attention to how we feel. As long as we know that God send us, tell us to do it and God IS beside us. It didn't matter what we feel but what we WILL do matter most. Just because we feel fear doesn't mean we can't KEEP going forward. Lot of people got afraid to not getting what they want in their life. Fear of failure. But sometimes we learn more in our failure than our sucsess. Besides, God's will be done in our life for He ALWAYS do and give the BEST for us. Mattew 14:28, Out of the 12 diciples, only Peter was brave enough to asked Jesus that he too want to walk on water. But he started to switch his attentionto the storm, FEEL fear and forgetting that Jesus IS there WITH him. Same as us. Once we start being afraid of "storms" in our lives, we start forgetting what God says, promised and that He IS with us. Verse 34, They CROSSED the lake.......So they finally ARRIVED on the other side of where they were before despite having a storm and heavy waves. Which also means, as long as we STAY on the boat, God will deliver us anyway. Just HANG ON!! Josua 1:6-9, BE STRONG and COURAGEOUS!! For the Lord your God is WITH you wherever you go. BE bold, BE strong, BE confident and BE courageous as God commanded us to. BE!! Is a choice. How we're gonna act. Peter might fall, but Jesus were probably proud, at least Peter's bold enough to asked and tried talkingon water. Brave person is someone who feel fear but KEEP ON doing what God says anyway. And people are challenge by bravery.God dare us to do bigger thing, to do something new, to get out from the boat and walk on water. God wants us to live with PASSION and PURPOSE! DON'T GIVE UP YOUR DREAMS!!! God LIKES bold people. Don't look at who dislikes us but those who DO. Be God's pleaser! Don't let the enemy steal our destiny. Believes in GOD rather than our feeling. God makes everything beautiful on its time. Believe and it will come true to you.

無言感激

不經不覺，明日27號就會上機去峇里，我地部份家人、親戚、朋友、同事們會一齊見證我地既婚禮；而有好多因事唔能夠去既朋友就好有心，送左好多結婚同埋入伙禮物入俾我地 (見相)，真係太客氣喇，上黎加雙筷或者飲下紅酒咪得囉。
在此再三謝過各位兄台既厚愛，無言感激，等我地返香港之後再約出黎睇片食飯喇~~~ciao

德國旅行車

服役左四年幾五年既法國靈獅彎路皇最近退役喇。當初為左一嘗揸棍波車既感覺，買左佢，點知一揸揸左五年，真係堅! 雖然佢係一部好車，但係為左令煎魚有得領略下駕駛既快感(辛苦)，都係時間換下車喇~~~

Home Sweet Home

經過兩個月既裝修工程，我地已經係9月正式入住我地既家喇! 翻新左間屋真係唔同晒，一切都好企理，月尾送埋張電腦枱同埋速電腦就大功告成，朋友們可以黎House Warming喇~~~

讚賞和感謝

在此真的要讚一下我老公, 在最近的一連串的繁事, 包括裝修, 搬家, 巴里結婚, 北京擺酒等等, 可以說他一手包辦, 搞得頭頭是道, 我也順勢做個小婦人, 只專注公司的事.

有時人真要經過事情的考驗, 才現出真本事, 真性情, 我感謝主給了我一個有擔當, 有責任感, 有愛心, 有胸襟, 有熱誠, 有毅力, 越發成熟的好男人.

交屋一肚氣 之 貪得無厭

香港地點解貧者越貧，富者越富，完全可以係我交樓既事件中深深體會。

話說我地係西環租既屋要係31號交樓，跟住攞番兩個月Pre-paid。

之前都預左個老女業主麻煩，早前已經裝番d燈，又掃左地，執過d地方咁，免得佢有借口扣起d Pre-paid。

到左個曰，業主先係遲左半粒鐘，都算喇。黎到又話呢度話清潔，個度唔乾淨，亦都係預左，心諗住左年幾，間屋有人同冇人住都一定好大塵架喇，唔好玩喇，所以我都控制住我既EQ，佢有佢講，我就左耳入右耳出，唔通我搵清潔公司同你執一次咩。

跟住試電器就最順利；到左試房鎖匙，我企左入房鎖左度門，佢左擰右擰都開唔到，連開門都唔識，重要話條鎖匙唔啱，原來佢除左EQ有問題，IQ都有d問題。

最後高潮來臨，業主話點解d燈得個燈胆，唔算係“燈飾”，就開始左呢場正常人同癲婆既理論。
佢就攞住份合約係手話開始個時HK$1500包全屋窗簾同埋“燈飾”，依架d窗簾ok，但係就話d要“燈飾”唔係要燈胆，係要話佢要裝佢裝開個款。我就話[ 阿T太，個陣時講好話我地會用HK1500裝窗簾，跟住自己出錢裝d好d既燈，走個陣時攞番，我都好有手尾咁裝番d燈胆俾佢架喇 ]；跟住佢就好似師傅到咁，燥狂抑鬱乜都黎晒，又話我唔理之前裝d乜野燈，依架呢d唔係“燈飾”，係“燈胆”，我就即時同佢講，[ 得，你要“燈飾”，我即係落去買幾個燈罩，咁咪叫“燈飾”囉 ]，佢又唔肯，話要佢之前裝開個隻；如此這般爭論左半粒鐘，跟住就落左去佢能夠用HK$1500做晒全屋窗簾同埋“燈飾”個間舖打下價，我打死都唔信HK$1500可以做晒全屋窗簾同埋燈飾。

落到去，原來都係我地搵開個間，業主同老闆娘W小姐講，[ 你個時幫我攪間屋d窗簾同埋燈飾，1500蚊攪掂，你記唔記得呀? ]。老闆娘W小姐話唔係好記得播，係都好多年前喇。完全唔知米貴既業主就死都要話做到，跟住打完價，全屋用佢裝開個隻燈飾，連工包料要HK$1170，我望住老闆娘W小姐笑左一笑，跟住即刻話，[ 即係剩番HK$330裝晒全屋窗簾 ? 好，不如咁，你係度搵隻布，可以用HK$1500做晒全屋窗簾同埋燈飾，我即刻上樓拆晒d窗簾，再俾返HK1500你，堅既!!! ]業主就梗係答唔到我喇，我算你d布唔駛錢，人工$330點都做唔到喇。

作為中間人既經紀P就同我出舖頭傾，由最初要我出晒HK$600，到最後我同經紀P一人HK$200了事。因為已經傾左成個幾兩個鐘，我又要返新居執屋，加上同業主傾等如係街邊同個智瘴或者痴綫既人傾計，傾到一肚氣，重要俾佢扣住d Pre-paid，個兩百蚊衰d講句俾多一蚊佢當帛金又好，當買番d燈罩又好，費事同d人一般見識，件事就係咁完結。

有d前輩話發財會立品，好明顯都有例外既；呢個業主手上都肯定有幾個四球野既樓盤放租，屋企唔係住山頂，就係住南區，但係呢d都唔係個人身家既問題，佢睇錢睇到咁大，重要貪得無厭，係其他方面一定會地方佢會控制唔到，亦可以無得佢控制。

係香港地，做我地呢d‘夾心人’有時都真係幾苦，對自己，對人地有要求，但係又唔學得d有錢人咁惟我獨尊；又唔學得d呃綜緩人咁耍無賴。不過諗深一層今生好快過姐，將來永生受苦就大件事喇!!!

好消息一籮籮

好朋友W正值轉工之際，突然收到我公司人事部電話話有offer。最特別就係我地係好友，亦做過同學，做過鄰居，就快重做埋同事，我諗唔會有咁多人有咁既緣份掛……

好友J最近換左隻好似變形金鋼既大玩具，攪到我都心郁郁……

自己份工一眨眼就做左五年，收左封信，有d Advancement，責任大左，努力努力……

煎魚出年年頭都開始Acting，要handle既case會難左，但係要進步一定要踏出自己既comfort zone，慢慢就處理到……

裝修工程都好準時，無出亂子，跟住順利裝埋電器，攪完衛生，Pack箱搬野，執野，攪掂晒，好友們可以黎House warming。

人生一定要有的八個朋友~ Tom Rath

婚姻的幸福、家庭的美滿、團隊組織的成功，都取決於人與人之間的能量。不過，當我們認真地想要改善自己的人生時，幾乎都會把所有的努力，一股腦投注入在提升自我改善。回顧自己受過的正規教育，中小學時努力學習閱讀、加減乘除，還辛苦學習外語；在大學和研究所階段，我們有機會專注在自己感興趣的學科；進入職場後，參加過無數的課程，都是為了要讓自己更有生產力，仍然將重點鎖定在個人的自我開發上。 我們全都搞錯了，真正的潛力，其實是潛藏在我們生命中每一段關係裡。

你可能不知道… 在工作中有「好朋友」的人，投入工作的熱情是一般人高出七倍。工作上有至少3位親密朋友的人，有百分之九十六的機會對自己的生活感到滿意。對婚姻生活滿意的夫妻，有70％認為「友誼」的重要性是「性或親密關係」的五倍。受訪者一致認為，花時間與老闆共處是一天中最不愉快的事。但如果經理人定期與員工聚會，員工有「工作上最佳朋友」的機率會增加兩倍。職場友誼可以改善員工對工作滿足感與成就感。 在工作中有「好朋友」的人，樂於服務顧客與人分享新點子、從事創新。從友誼品質可以預測他的「幸福指數」與「生活滿意度」,並推斷個人身體健康情形與壽命。

把人際關係拿掉，一切事物都將消失得無影無蹤。「友誼」影響我們對生命的期待、健康的維護、工作的績效，甚至婚姻幸福的感覺。 宇宙間最偉大的力量，是存在朋友與朋友之間的能量。

八種朋友，分別在每個人生命中扮演下列各種不同的角色。

Builder

推手擅長鼓勵，總是會把你推向終點。他們會持續投資在你身上，好讓你有所發展，同時真心希望你能成功，即使必須為你承擔風險。推手會慷慨地貢獻自己的時間，協助你找到自己的優點，同時有效利用這些優點；從不嫉妒你或成為你的競爭對手，總是站在終點鼓舞你、為你歡呼。

Champion

總是和你站在同一陣線、支持你的信念。他們是會讚美你的朋友。這會讓你的生活每天都變得不同。他們不只在你面前稱讚你，也會在你背後撐腰，就算你不在場，也會挺身而出為你仗義執言。支柱是你的最佳擁護者，當你成功時，他們會為你感到驕傲，而且會與其他人分享。

Collaborator

是與你興趣相近的朋友，也是眾多親密友誼的基礎。你們可能對運動、嗜好、信仰、工作、政治、食物、電影、音樂或書籍有相同喜好。這樣的特殊情誼讓你們成為一輩子的朋友，你會非常喜歡和他們一起消磨時光。

Companion

不論情況如何，當你有需要的時候，他們總是會站在你身邊。你們之間的情感聯繫牢不可破。當你生命中發生重大事件時，他們都會是你第一個想連絡的人。夥伴會把你們之間的關係引以為傲，而且會願意犧牲自己來幫助你。他們幾乎是可以讓你以性命相託的朋友。

Connector

你想要的東西，他們就是有辦法幫你搭起橋樑。這樣的朋友一旦知道你要什麼，總能馬上張開聯絡網，找到一些和你有相同興趣或目標的人；他們能快速地擴大你的人際網絡，讓你直接通往取得新資源的管道。如果你需要工作、醫生、朋友或約會對象，打電話給這樣的朋友就對了。

Energizer

他們總是有辦法讓你精神大振、心情大好。和他們相處時，你的生活會充滿了積極感。當你心情跌至谷底時，開心果可以很快地讓你恢復正常，有本事讓你有好心情或錦上添花。當你需要一個笑容、想要大笑時或放鬆一下時，千萬記得找他們。

Mind Opener

可以拓展你的視野、鼓勵你接受新觀念、想法、機會、文化與人們。幫助你拓展個人眼界，創造無數正面的變化。他們是一群挑戰傳統智慧的朋友，面對難題時，為你提供具創意的解決方案；同時，不斷地刺激、激勵你，大膽表達一些你從不敢在別人面前說出的想法與意見。

Navigator

他們可以給你建議並指引方向。當你需要指引或諮詢時，就去找他們。他們擅於聆聽、整理、分析你心理所想的。他們會讓你了解自己擁有或缺少什麼能力。你可以和他們分享目標和夢想，並一針見血地幫你點出達成夢想與目標的方法與途徑。

變形金鋼 Transformers

呢排變形金鋼咁hit，啱啱諗起係老家有本集圖冊。出奇地呢本成廿年既集圖冊都重好完整，睇翻本集圖冊都會諗番起細個誓要集齊既感覺，又要同人交換，又要去買“散裝”又剩，集齊呢本野都要有d耐性同埋運氣;當然如果你有錢到癲就梗係可以買好多好多盒貼紙，一次過集齊佢，不過我同阿哥細個時就唔係咁富貴喇，同埋學廣告話齋“花得起不值得興奮”，識得花先係“醒”!!!

話時話，呢本野家陣係eBay賣到幾多錢呢? 朋友如果知就單聲，等我得個知字~~~~

裝修進行中......

裝修已開始倒數階段,希望一切如期進行!!!