Whenever I tell people that I am getting marry in Bali in a small but cosy crystal chapel facing the golden Indian ocean, people would ask me why I like to get marry in such an unconventional way.

To me, a wedding is never a party or a fashion show

I treat marriage seriously and i think it is a life time promise that 2 persons made in front of GOD. It is as sacred as that.

I dont think the rest matters, really. The wedding in hk nowadays becomes so commercial and i dont like it.

We are paying for the close relatives to bali, i prefer the idea of having the money spent on those u really care instead of letting the make up, the gown and benz rental etc take it away

That's my thinking at the moment. People said I might regret of not having a 'huge' banquet and following all the traditional rules of getting a pig, a chicken, throwing rice....

Would I? I dont know. But at least I know that must mean my taste would have been changed dramatically and that is really something beyond my imagination at the moment.

In any event, I am very grateful for my parents and his parents (my future in laws). They are totally in support of our idea of the wedding. There is never any unreasonable demand on the style of dresses, the dates, the price of 'selling your daughter', troublesome things like that.

It shows that they really respect and care about us. I heard too many stories of having two family fighting and hating each other on the preparation of a wedding (which suppose to be a happy union of two family).

I know this is truly our blessing and I am most grateful for it.

PS: for the reader of this blog...u probably can't distinguish between the author of the articles, whether it is him or me...hehe....i am sure u would be able to find some clue sooner or latter...

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